“RIGHT” RELATIONSHIPS 10/1/09 – Stacy Joyce
What are “Right” Relationships? I believe that they are the experience of relating to Self, God and Others in harmony, unity and flow. Those who come into our lives (for a moment, a season or a lifetime) give us the opportunity to discover ourselves and to learn (or remember) Who We Truly Are. Therefore, if we are open to receiving it, there is a gift given to us from every person with whom we come in contact.
Everyone comes into our lives for a purpose. I continually struggle (my choice) with attempting to define and label that purpose, and place expectations on how I think it should manifest. My ego/fear falsely believe that if I can figure out just exactly who a person is to me, and find a name to call it (friend, family, lover, soulmate, etc), that this will somehow make it real and secure. Truly though, this is not so. How then can we really Know* what is True? Perhaps the answer lies not in figuring it out, but rather is simply BEing with someone, and naturally allowing a “Right” Relationship to unfold and reveal itself.
When we ask the question, “What is the purpose of this relationship?” There is only one answer that we can be certain is True*. That is to give us an opportunity to experience our Divine Nature. It is natural to desire connections through which we feel love, compassion, healing, joy, laughter, passion, friendship and understanding. The people in our lives are mirrors to See* that we already posses these qualities within ourselves. What we are experiencing is the God/dess within seeking to express itself.
The Angels* in our lives “show up” to assist us through difficulties and challenges…to provide us with guidance and support…to gift us physically, emotionally or spiritually… They arrive not necessarily when we want them to — but when we need them to, and they are always on time! When someone comes through for us in our “hour of need,” they may seem like a “Godsend”…That’s because they are!
Sometimes relationships end or change in ways we are resistant to. This can result in feelings of loss, grief, anger, abandonment, etc. All of us have experienced these emotions, however…WE DON’T HAVE TO! When we learn to live without attachment or expectation, the result is acceptance. With acceptance comes freedom from the bondage of emotions created by our egos. When we are authentic and come from an intention of unconditional love and acceptance…When we speak our personal truth without fear or attachment to results…then we can Know* that we have done our part in contributing to “Right” Relationship. When we can simply “BE” with another, then we are free to experience all of the glorious feelings that flow inside of the sacred moments shared.
As we examine our current relationships, perhaps there are some that do not feel “Right” to us. How can we transform them? By choosing to and staying committed to that choice. For most of us, there will be moments when we forget. It’s okay. Just recognize that you forgot and then simply choose differently at the next opportunity.
Until next time, Namaste!
~ Stacy ~
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